The dowry system, a centuries-old practice in South Asian societies, continues to plague modern India despite legal prohibitions and growing public awareness. Traditionally, dowry referred to a voluntary gift of wealth or property given by the bride’s family to the groom at the time of marriage. Over time, however, it has evolved into a socially enforced demand, often accompanied by greed, exploitation, and violence.In many communities, the dowry system is viewed as a customary obligation. Families believe that giving a substantial dowry elevates their social status and secures their daughter’s future. On the other side, grooms and their families often perceive dowry as a transaction for acquiring wealth or compensating for educational and professional qualifications. As a result, marriages become less about love and compatibility and more about monetary exchange.The consequences of this practice are deeply harmful, particularly for women. Dowry-related harassment, domestic violence, and even deaths are still reported with alarming regularity. Women who are unable to bring the “expected” dowry often face emotional abuse, physical torture, or abandonment. In extreme cases, dowry deaths—murders disguised as accidents—shake the very fabric of society. According to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), thousands of dowry-related deaths occur in India every year, despite legal safeguards like the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961.The economic impact on the bride’s family is equally devastating. In many cases, poor families are forced into debt or sell property just to meet dowry demands. This financial strain can lead to long-term hardship and deprive other family members—especially girls—of education and opportunities.Moreover, the dowry system reinforces gender inequality. It places a monetary value on women, reduces them to mere commodities, and perpetuates the notion that daughters are a financial burden. This mindset discourages the birth and education of girls and fosters practices like female foeticide and child marriage.To combat this deep-rooted evil, society must work collectively. Legal measures are necessary but not sufficient. More importantly, there needs to be a shift in cultural attitudes. Public awareness campaigns, community-based interventions, and education—particularly for young people—are essential. Men must be taught to reject dowry and value their partners as equals, while families must understand that a daughter’s worth cannot be measured in cash or material goods.Youth, educators, religious leaders, and influencers must come together to promote dowry-free marriages and celebrate simple, equitable unions. Social media, too, can play a powerful role in spreading anti-dowry messages and highlighting positive examples of change.In conclusion, the dowry system is not just a cultural tradition—it is a form of social injustice that must be eradicated. A progressive society cannot allow such regressive practices to continue. The time has come to challenge outdated norms and build a future where marriages are based on love, respect, and equality—not on the weight of a dowry.
